Introducing: the Relating Parlor.
You're gonna wanna pull up a chair.
What does it mean to be exceptional at relating?
It means we aren’t afraid to tell our truth and receive others’ truth…even in our differences.
Examples:
🍸 You aren’t afraid to tell our spouse that you don’t want to have sex because you know how to handle their response.
🍸 You know how to make friends that you actually like wherever you go. Even if it is a dumb holiday party or fucking church.
🍸 You aren’t brimming with anxious wonder when you don’t get a text back because you know how to be loved whatever you do.
🍸 You know how to talk to people who have disappointed you over and over again without feeling like you are erasing yourself yet again.
🍸 You no longer cringe at experiences like jealousy, resentment, and loneliness in your relationships because you see them as quite the fascinating source of entertainment.
The way your heart drops at the thought of needing to competently relate to people in life doesn’t have to feel like such a scary secret goblin anymore.
All that pretending around how “ok” you are in relationships?
That is so 2023. this is 2024, fam.
Let’s *actually* be okay in your relationships.
Of course - Not just “ok” but actually feel orgasmic in your relationships because you feel fucking e x c e p t i o n a l at relating.
Here’s how we’re going to get there.
We are going to:
☕️ Identify which stage of relational competence we’re at.
☕️ Find out what to do to move to the next level of competence. (and the next)
☕️ Practice. (with help from a round of charades, treasure hunts, inappropriate jokes, and my virtual pom poms - more on this later)
Here’s how it’s gonna roll out:
For 21 days starting February 21, every single day in our Relating Parlor Discord server, I will share a core menu of the practical foundations of relating to start embodying & practicing immediately.
Early Access Bonus: I’m gonna *officially* start dropping the curricular shit on Feb 21, but we are starting the parlor party TODAY with everyone who joins.
Which means if you join today, you get 2 additional weeks of practice, coaching, presence, and relating from me and the community.
Here’s how to get started:
1- Sign up at angela-han.com/parlor.
2- Get the link to join our Discord server in your email receipt.
3- Start popping in thoughts, questions, word vomits, and whatever shenanigans you got about your relationships.
I am in there around the clock responding to all of your relationship emergencies and non-emergencies. Starting right now.
This is a shame-free, kink-friendly, pro-sluthood space where we talk about things in our relationships we never talk about elsewhere.
{But hey, we are vanilla-friendly here, too. Not everything has to be about sex.
If you didn’t know, I am actually vanilla as fuck half the time. It’s quite a lovely way of being.}
Be warned: you’ll walk away from the 21+ days with besties you didn’t even know you needed.
HOLY FUCK WHY AREN’T YOU ALREADY IN IT FAM?
See you in there: angela-han.com/parlor
The first three parlorians to join will get a 60 min 1:1 call with me as a warm-up.
Sharing yourself in a group can feel unnerving. Let’s do some spiritual stretches together so it feels even more delightful to show up in the parlor.
(And if you don’t want the call, you can pass it onto the next person!)
Questions? I have answers:
Question: I know how to communicate well in some settings, but it’s just this one relationship where I just feel so fucking stuck. Will the Relating Parlor help me with this?
Answer: Yes. The foundations of relating that I will be offering apply to one-on-one relationships, one-to-many relationships, relationships at home, at work, and everything in between and beyond.
Question: Is this right for me if I am absolutely certain that I am uniquely fucked?
Answer: No. However, I am dead certain that you are *not* uniquely fucked. So if you want to fight me on this, the Relating Parlor is an excellent place to do exactly that and find out all the ways you are clearly not uniquely fucked. And then you can see all the ways you can make your relationships your own playground.
Question: Can you tell me again exactly what I’m gonna get in the Relating Parlor?
Answer: The official, core curriculum starts dropping February 21. The core curriculum contains everything I know about exceptional relating so that you don’t feel lost in any of your relationships, ever. These are the elements that I carry into my own relationships every single day to build an ecosystem of love and support that feels nourishing for me.
Until February 21, I’m gonna drop important transmissions that generally have to do with relating that you can implement in your relationships immediately, and you can also bring all your relationship emergencies and non-emergencies for us to look at together. If you think your questions are too dumb, prize goes out to the dumbest question asked. So please bring it all.
Throughout the entire time, there will be impromptu treasure hunts and calls to support your experience. More details inside.
Question: Do I need to have my shit together before I join? I might be too behind and weird to belong in the community.
Answer: Have you met me? Having your shit together, if that is even a thing, is never a requirement in my world. The Relating Parlor is where we let our hair down and relax so that we can spiritually orgasm our way together to exceptional relating.
Question: What if this is too overwhelming? Do I have to attend all the calls and complete all the challenges and ask all the questions?
Answer: Nope. I will give you only the essentials starting February 21, and everything else is enrichment and entertainment that is available for you to pick up or discard as you please. Even if you get one takeaway that sticks with you, you will have changed the way you relate, forever.
Question: I don’t do very well in groups. Is this the right fit for me?
Answer: Nothing happens without your consent. If you don’t want to join right now, listen to your body. But if your body is swelling with excitement with a small dose of nervousness on the side, here’s what we’re gonna do: you do only what you want to do in the group. If you find yourself wanting to remain completely silent throughout the entirety of our time together, hats off to you. Voyeurism is a kink I have. We may have that in common.
Question: Can I post questions anonymously?
Answer: Yes. You can send me questions privately, and I will post them anonymously on the main channel for me to respond.
Question: How will you guarantee safety and belonging in this space?
Answer: I can’t. You are responsible for locating your own safety and belonging, and you do not have to stay in the space if you cannot find it. I will, however, teach how we can find that responsibility delightful - both in this space and anywhere else we find ourselves in.
Question: Is there a way to do this wrong?
Answer: You can only do this wrong if you really like being wrong. If being wrong is your kink, hey, I’m here to support that. If you wanna be bad, dirty, and wrong, that sounds pretty cool, too.
But in all seriousness, I am here with you every step of the way to support you in getting what you want. You’ll have access to the foundations of relating that actually feel doable and digestible for the rest of your life.
You in?